In most of our lives as women we often make this mistake to think that the reason why our husbands love us because we are pretty, capable or talented. Love is about the connection from the heart. It’s the same as how we connect to God, and it is not because we keep our precepts and we go to church. It’s a personal connection between husband and wife and between man and his God.
So how can we find and sustain this connection from the heart with our husbands? The answer is to be “you.” The idea of being you with all of your faults is not at all impressive to you. However, to sustain that heart connection and keeps your man you must. He is not with you because you are beautiful although initially looks help. He is not with you because you own an impressive portfolio that lists all of your accomplishments since birth. Last but not least, he is not with you because you are a God sent who satisfies every of his whims.
He is with you because that special heart connection that ONLY YOU can provide.
So the next time you feel that you are too ugly, too fat, too thin, too old, too …. think again. Be you and be authentic and own all of the feelings together with him. So be vulnerable about “you” and go through life FREE with all hangs up … with him. He will come, and he will be yours forever. No other woman in the world can take your place — as he can’t never find that “heart connection” with no one else but YOU.
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