Jealousies

At one time or another jealousies will rear its ugly head into your marriage or main relationships.

Some will endure this feeling in silent and some will act out in such a way, which will rob your relationship of the intimacy you want.

Either way, jealousies have no place in your relationship and without your acknowledgement or intention to clear it up, it will erode into your foundation of love, and it can destroy it one layer at a time.

So is this another green eye’s monster and how does jealousy come into our being?

Jealousies come from the fears of losing the one you love. Every single man and woman on this planet will experience some mild to heavy forms of jealousies at one time or another. If you love someone, you are inevitably afraid of someone or something else steals that person from your heart. The truth is this. If a man doesn’t love you, he will leave you. Man stays only because he loves his wife, or he loves the connection bond that he has with her. Some men values this commitment thing very seriously and he is almost like a warrior when it comes to being faithful to her.

Jealousies if it is happening often and heavily are probably due to the low self-esteem of a person. Low self-esteem stems from the feeling of not worthy to be loved. This feeling comes very hidden and often misguided as self-righteousness. They are often causes by abandonment or abuse of some kinds in that person history.

When you feel jealous about your man or your woman takes a deep breath and takes few steps back. Communicate to your beloved of how you feel and how his/her or her behavior has hurt you. Never make accusation as when you are jealous you may have seen things in the “green monster eyes” and not real eyes.

However, if you feel intense jealousies always, it’s time to seek professional help. You can’t afford this green eye’s monster to destroy the precious relationship you have with your husband or wife. And it will if you don’t acknowledge it.

In the end if you don’t know God’s love and His spirit doesn’t live in side you, you will never really truly know how to love another as it is intended.