In my life, I’ve met many individuals who came across to me as cruel and ruthless. One of the people is my husband’s ex-wife. When he told me what she was saying I felt so trouble in my heart. Thus, I set out to ask God the solutions for this dilemma. And here are ways you can take back the control of your soul when it feels so helpless in your attempt to put some sane into an insane person.
The first answer is why you even bother with a response to such a person? When a person is not civil and in your history of dealing with them, they show to be a bully and a foul mouth individual. Holding contempt for such a person is the same as drinking your own poison and expect the other person to die.
Secondly look at that person life? Is she happy? Is she having anybody else to dump her garbage on but you? Sometimes a person is so sad with their lives that they will take you down just to have a simple pleasure of hurting you.
Like attracts like, anger feeds anger. Don’t go there
Ask the question “What would Jesus do? Then ask Him to show you the reason behind all of this aggression.
Don’t respond to that person no matter how much they try to provoke you. Difficult people get off by provoking you to be in the same space as them. They thrive on it. Don’t let it happen.
Completely emerge yourself in activities and people that you love and love you. Stay away from that person entirely, for the time being.
Detach yourself from this person by becoming a director of your life. Watch it from a distance. This serves a very useful mind outlet where you don’t feel the need to respond or to engage yourself in a verbal volley with them that only ends up in bad feelings for you.
Treat it as loud noises from the outside, on the street. You heard it, but it registers nothing in your mind and your emotions.
See if you can learn a lesson from this. Look at it as an adventure in faith.
Bottom line is when you dealt with cruel and difficult people, the object for them is to get you angry. This is their goal. Whatever you do, don’t feed into this feeling. Run away from it.
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